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[NEW] Affiliate Traffic Coming Straight to Your SkyPrivate Profile

Affiliate Traffic Coming to Your SkyPrivate Profile

We’ve got another big SkyPrivate 2.0 improvement coming your way:

👉 All affiliate traffic that previously landed on pvt.sexy is coming straight to SkyPrivate.com.

Which means straight to your SkyPrivate profile. Without any extra steps on your part.

👉 This transition will take place gradually between September 3 and 8.

Even better, this upgrade builds on the SkyPrivate 2.0 features you’re already enjoying:

  • 90% payout on new members you refer
  • Full control over your private shows
  • Pay-Per-Minute on Telegram


What This Means for You: 3 Main Benefits 📈

  1. More traffic: New members who might never have found your SkyPrivate profile will now have direct access.
  2. More calls: Greater visibility means more chances to turn those visitors into paying members.
  3. More earnings: Another stream of potential clients means extra revenue for you.

NOTE: The “Get More Calls” option in your account will be removed because affiliate traffic will now reach your profile automatically.



Your Earnings on Affiliate-Referred Member Spending 💰

To make the transition smooth, we’re introducing a 6-month transition period:

  • If you joined SkyPrivate before August 25: You’ll earn 60% commission on affiliate-sent members’ spending during this period on top of to your regular payout a thank-you for being part of SkyPrivate long-term.
  • If you joined SkyPrivate starting August 25: You’ll earn 50% commission, which is the industry standard.

After the transition, all models will earn 50% commission on affiliate-referred member payments.

NOTE: Your regular payout rate for all non-affiliate members remains unchanged.



Why This Update? 💡

We’re making this change to help you get more exposure, attract new members, and grow your earnings over time.

Here’s why this is so important:

  • Reinvesting into growth: The standard 50% commission rate for affiliate-referred members is in line with industry standards and allows us to reinvest more into marketing bringing even more users and traffic your way.
  • Better tools, better platform: These update helps us deliver platform improvements, like better visibility, and smarter tools to help you succeed.
  • Long-term sustainability: By aligning with industry standards, we can keep building a platform that benefits all SkyPrivate models. Not just today, but for years to come.
  • Higher conversion rates mean affiliate-referred visitors are more likely to call you for 1-on-1 shows, since they’ll land directly on SkyPrivate.com where your profile is easier to discover.
  • Consolidating the brand: We’re unifying everything under one strong brand: SkyPrivate. A single, trusted domain means higher user confidence, better SEO, and higher conversion rates, benefiting both models and affiliates. It also simplifies technical systems like tracking, and support.

Over time, this means steady, sustainable growth for your earnings.


What Do You Need to Do? 👀

Nothing! This update will happen automatically, and you don’t need to do anything.

Just continue doing what you do best  – engaging with your members – while SkyPrivate 2.0 works in the background to help grow your reach and your earnings.


Looking Ahead…

We’re building SkyPrivate 2.0 to help you earn more with less effort, and this transition ensures the platform grows stronger for the long term.



Frequently Asked Questions


1. Why Are You Moving pvt.sexy Traffic into SkyPrivate?

Because:

✔ We want to unify everything under one strong brand: SkyPrivate.
✔ A single, trusted domain means higher user confidence, better SEO, and higher conversion rates — which benefits both models and affiliates.
✔ It also simplifies technical systems (payouts, tracking, support).


2. Will My Links still Work? (Affiliates)


Yes. All pvt.sexy links will automatically redirect to SkyPrivate.

You don’t need to change anything: your tracking and earnings are safe.


3. What Happens to My Earnings Share as Model?

If you’ve joined SkyPrivate before August 25, your share stays at 60% during the 6-month transition period. This is our way of thanking you for your loyalty.

If you’ve joined SkyPrivate starting August 25, you will start at the new standard rate of 50%, which is in line with industry standards.


4. Why Are New Models Starting at 50% Instead of 60%?


Because:

✔ We’re aligning with the industry average, which is around 50%.
✔ This allows us to reinvest more into marketing, tools, and support, so the overall pie gets bigger.
✔ Models who’ve signed up on SkyPrivate before August 25 keep their 60% during the 6-month transition period as a loyalty reward. So, if you fall into this category, you’re in a better position than newcomers.


5. Is This a Pay Cut for Me?

No. Models who’ve joined before August 25 keep their 60% during the 6-month transition period.

Only future models and models who’ve joined SkyPrivate starting August 25 will have the 50% payout rate.

👉 In other words, if you joined before August 25, you’re being rewarded for sticking with us long term.


6. What Benefits Do I Get From This Migration?


✔ More traffic from a single, stronger brand: SkyPrivate.
Better SEO and visibility for your SkyPrivate profile.
Improved trust with users, which translates into higher conversion rates.
Long-term platform growth which provides more opportunities for you to earn.


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90% Payout Rate Now Available on SkyPrivate 2.0: See How It Works

90% Payout Rate Now Available on SkyPrivate 2.0

Great news! SkyPrivate 2.0 just got an upgrade you don’t want to miss:

Now you can earn 90% for life on everything new members that you refer to SkyPrivate spend with you. 👀


💸 The 90% Payout Rate: What You Need to Know

  • Earn 90% of everything new members that you invite to SkyPrivate spend with you.
  • This applies to their tips, their pay-per-minute calls with you, prepaid shows, and store purchases.
  • And yes, it’s FOR LIFE: You keep earning 90% of what your referred members spend with you for as long as they remain active (i.e, spending) on SkyPrivate.



🛠️ How to Unlock Your 90% Payout in 3 Steps:


It’s simple:

  1. Log in to your SkyPrivate account
  2. Go to Promote → “Get 90% Payout
  3. Copy your referral link and share it wherever your fans follow you: socials, chat, anywhere.


🚀 How to Start Earning 90%

From now on, whenever someone signs up on SkyPrivate through your referral link, you automatically unlock your 90% payout rate on everything they spend with you.

Yes, it really is THAT simple.



💡 What Does This Mean for You?

  • Your current payout rate remains unchanged.
  • In addition to that, you now have the chance to boost your regular payout rate to 90% with your referrals!

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NEW on SkyPrivate 2.0: Telegram Pay-Per-Minute Shows Are Here!

Affiliate Traffic Coming to Your SkyPrivate Profile

Guess what? SkyPrivate 2.0 just got its first upgrade — and this one’s been worth the wait:

You can now do Pay-Per-Minute private shows on Telegram — no plugin required! 🚀

This means:

  • more freedom
  • less hassle
  • more control over how you do your own private shows

Now, let’s walk you through everything you need to know to get started –— it’s super simple and only takes a few minutes:


Get Ready for Your First Pay-Per-Minute Show on Telegram


On your Telegram account:

  • Set a public username (so members can find you)
  • Hide your phone number (to protect your privacy)
  • Set your call settings to “Everyone” (so members can call you)

Need help? Check out our easy guide 👉 HERE



🛠️ How to Activate Your Telegram PPM Services — 3 Steps


On your SkyPrivate account:

🚨 IMPORTANT! If you’ve already connected your Telegram, you’ll need to start fresh by reconnecting it to your SkyPrivate account. Then:

  1. Go to Settings > Services > Telegram > Configure
  2. Enter the phone number linked to your Telegram account > Enter the PIN code you’ll receive on Telegram
  3. Open your Telegram – you’ll see a new conversation from the bot “ppmInfo” with the message:
    /start connect.

  👉 See FULL Step-by-Step Guide

And that’s it! You’re all set.



📲 How To Have a Private Show on Telegram (PPM vs Prepaid)


How to Have a PPM Call on Telegram:

  1. The member sends you a message on Telegram
  2. A private group* gets created for you two automatically
  3. It’s you who calls the member in that private group
  4. He starts to get charged per minute once he joins the call

🚨 IMPORTANT! It’s you the Model who starts and ends the PPM calls on Telegram!

* If someone writes reaches you in the chat, but no group gets created, we encourage you to ask him if he’s a SkyPrivate Member or if he wishes to become one. As some members might not know to connect their Telegram, or they simply skip that part.


How to Have a Prepaid Call on Telegram:

  1. Always start and end the call from your Telegram 1:1 chat (DM) with the member.
  2. Don’t call the member from the private group for prepaid shows! As doing so might accidentally start a PPM charge.

The key difference?

👉 Telegram PPM calls happen in private groups  🆚 Telegram Prepaid calls happen in your direct 1:1 chat (DM)

  👉 Learn More



🚀 More Updates Coming Soon

This is just the beginning of what SkyPrivate 2.0 has in store for you.

We’re working on even more ways to help you earn more, stay safe, and have full control over your shows.

As always, we’re here if you need help setting things up or have questions. 💙


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Introducing SkyPrivate 2.0: More Ways to Earn, Your Way

Affiliate Traffic Coming to Your SkyPrivate Profile

Back in March, we made you a promise — that we’d be here to guide you through every change.

And that we’d move faster to bring you the alternatives we were already working on.

Today, we’re proud to deliver on that promise with SkyPrivate 2.0 — the next chapter in our journey together:

SkyPrivate 2.0: More Ways to Earn, More Freedom to Choose

SkyPrivate 2.0 is a meaningful upgrade built on everything you already know and love about SkyPrivate.

Now with more flexibilitymore earning opportunities, and more freedom to do your 1-on-1s your way.

It’s the step forward that puts you in charge — not just a flashy redesign to make it look like we’re changing.

What’s Coming Next at SkyPrivate 2.0:

💬 Pay-Per-Minute Shows on Telegram — in the following few weeks.

💰 Improved Referral Program + Higher Payout Rates — coming next in line.

📹 The SkyPrivate App for 1-on-1 Streaming — beta version soon.

🎁 And more surprises as we roll out SkyPrivate 2.0…

What’s Already Live:

✅ Pay-Per-Minute (and prepaid) shows on Teams
✅ Pay-Per-Minute (and prepaid) shows on Discord
✅ Prepaid shows on Telegram

SkyPrivate 2.0: What Does It Mean for You, More Exactly?

SkyPrivate 2.0 is all about giving you:

  • More freedom to choose where and how you offer private shows
  • More ways to earn — whether it’s PPM or prepaid, on Discord, Telegram, Teams, or soon in-app
  • More control over your schedule, setup, and how you connect

👉 SkyPrivate 2.0 moves us from “cams on Skype” to a cams hub on Telegram and other social apps, all on your terms.


So, What’s Next?

SkyPrivate 2.0 will roll out gradually over the next months.

You’ll start seeing new features implemented one by one — and we’ll keep guiding you through each one of them.

👉 Follow us on TelegramTeamsand Discord to never miss an update


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[LIVE] Teams Pay-Per-Minute Shows Now at SkyPrivate

On May 5, Skype will be officially retired and replaced with Microsoft Teams Free.

So, you might be asking yourself right now:

What services can I offer on SkyPrivate after Skype transitions to Teams?”

Let’s give you some clear answers.

In this blog post, you’ll find:

  • All the services you can offer right now at SkyPrivate 
  • The new solutions that are soon to come

Let’s get started.

What’s NEW: Teams Pay-Per-Minute Shows! 🚀

Great news: now you can offer Teams PPM shows, too, at SkyPrivate.

That’s right, Teams has been integrated with the pay-per-minute plugin.

How do you set your plugin so you can start doing — and charging for — pay-per-minute calls on Teams?

Here’s how:

How to Activate Your Teams PPM Services – 3 Steps

  1. Add your Teams invite link to your SkyPrivate account > Services (if you haven’t already) > See HOW and your Teams User ID > See HOW
  2. Log in to the pay-per-minute plugin 
  3. Click on “Link account” to link your Teams account to SkyPrivate


Once you’ve activated your Teams PPM services, all your shows will happen there – members will be able to contact you directly on Teams. Skype will no longer be available for PPM calls. 

Other Services You Can Already Offer at SkyPrivate

Besides Teams pay-per-minute and prepaid shows, at SkyPrivate you can already offer:

  • Discord pay-per-minute and prepaid shows
  • Telegram prepaid shows

And new communication solutions are soon to come…

SkyPrivate After Skype: What to Expect Next…

Right now, we’re working on 2 new solutions for you:

  • Telegram pay-per-minute shows
  • Our own SkyPrivate PPM 1-on-1 video streaming app

So, stay tuned. More good things are yet to come at SkyPrivate after May 5…

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Introducing The Discord Q&A Hub (with LIVE Q&A sessions every week)

Introducing The Discord Q&A Hub | Weekly LIVE Sessions

Introducing the “Discord Q&A Hub” with LIVE Sessions Every Friday

This week we’re launching a series of LIVE Q&A Sessions on Discord. 💡

👉 They’ll take place every Friday – on the Official SkyPrivate Discord server – in the “Q&A Hub” voice channel. 👀

Here’s What to Expect:

🔹 Every week in the “knowledge-hub” channel on our Discord server you can vote the topic you want covered in the next live Q&A session.
🔹 On that very same channel you get exclusive access to top tips and best practices to help you make the most of Discord – from helpful setup tips to valuable engagement strategies.
🔹 You’re free to drop your own questions, comments, and suggestions before every live Q&A session.

👉Join the Discord Q&A Hub Now

Not Yet on the SkyPrivate Discord Server? Here’s Why You’ll Want to Join It…

🔹 Lots of SkyPrivate members are already on our Discord server, enjoying pay-per-minute calls every day with other models in your niche. Who fit your own profile…

🔹 Valuable tips and advice are being shared daily exclusively with the models there. From quick tips on how to set up and optimize your Discord profile to proven strategies to get more Discord calls & boost your earnings.

🔹 You get to shape the Q&A sessions’ agendas: Every week, you can choose (and even suggest) the topic to be discussed in the live session taking place on Friday.


👉Join the SkyPrivate Discord Server Now

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Boost Your Earnings: Why You Should Start Using Discord for Your Private Shows TODAY

Why You Should Use Discord for Private Calls on SkyPrivate

Did you know? Pay-per-minute shows are happening on Discord every single day.

And lots of members are already on Discord, looking for models just like you: with your body features, who offer the same type of shows that you do.

So, if you want to get more calls and boost your earnings…

You’ll want to start using Discord actively TODAY.

Let’s dive into why you’ll want to start using Discord to its FULL potential:


4 Reasons Why You’ll Want to Start Using Discord for Private Shows Today


Reason #1: More Calls = More Money

Models who have Discord services activated get more calls.

Which means higher earnings.

Members love the convenience of Discord, and by making yourself available for 1-on-1 shows there, you’re increasing your chances of getting private calls.

Reason #2: You Stand Out from the Crowd of Models

Not all models are using Discord… yet.

So, if you do, you’re instantly ahead of the competition.

Because members who prefer Discord will naturally gravitate toward models who are already available there.

Reason #3: Discord Is Super Easy to Set Up

Not tech-savvy? No problem!

Discord is simple to use.

Once you’re set up and have your Discord account linked to your SkyPrivate model account, you can start taking calls on Discord right away.

Reason #4: Members Are Already Waiting for You on Discord

Many Members are already waiting for you on Discord.

Meanwhile, they’re enjoying pay-per-minute private shows with… other models there.

Models who’re into the same fetishes as you are, in the same niche… with the same body features that those members are looking for.

So, why not be one of those models joining members on Discord for private shows?

How to Connect Discord to Your SkyPrivate Model Account

Getting started with Discord for private calls is super easy.

Just follow these 3 simple steps:

  1. Go to your SkyPrivate account → Services
  2. Enter your Discord username and click Save
  3. Join the SkyPrivate Official Discord Server ▶️ so members can DM you on Discord.

And that’s it—you’re ready to take private calls on Discord, too!


New to Discord? Here’s How to Get Started

If you don’t have a Discord account yet, don’t worry—getting one is super simple:

Here’s a short and simple step-by-step guide on ->How to create a Discord account


Start Using Discord ACTIVELY Today

Now it’s time to let your members know you’re available on Discord, engage with them, and give them an experience they’ll keep coming back for.

Using Discord can help you increase your earnings, make stronger connections, and create a better experience for your members.

So don’t wait—activate your Discord services today and unlock more calls… more money!

From SkyPrivate to Private Connections: Our Response to the Skype Closure Announcement

Skype transitions to Teams app, as many of you may have heard, by May 5, 2025.

This means that Skype, an app that has been a cornerstone of online communication for over two decades, will soon be phased out. You can read Microsoft’s official announcement here: Microsoft Blog.

At SkyPrivate, we have always believed in the power of personal connections. In an increasingly digital world, people often feel more alone than ever. That’s why our mission has always been to build Personal-Connection adult communities—spaces where you can engage in real, personal, intimate, and erotic interactions using platforms that feel natural, like Skype and Discord.

This announcement from Microsoft only reinforces our commitment to adapting and evolving. We were already working on alternatives, and now we’re moving even faster to bring them to you.


Our Plan Moving Forward

We are actively working on multiple solutions to ensure you can continue enjoying seamless, premium, and private communication experiences on SkyPrivate:

1. Teams2Teams Private Calls

We have already begun researching how to adapt our SkyPrivate plugin to work with Microsoft Teams Free. If you prefer to continue using Microsoft’s ecosystem, we are working on a solution that will allow you to make premium, paid Teams-to-Teams calls—just like you did on Skype.

💬 Join our SkyPrivate Teams Official Community here: SkyPrivate Teams

ProTip: Make sure you go to Settings > Privacy to hide your email address first.

2. Expanding Discord2Discord Calls

Many of our users are already enjoying Discord-to-Discord 1-on-1 private paid calls on SkyPrivate. We will be rolling out new communication campaigns to ensure all our users know about this feature.

💬 Join our verified SkyPrivate Discord community here: SkyPrivate Discord

3. Telegram2Telegram Private Calls – Coming Soon

We are accelerating our 2025 roadmap to introduce Telegram-to-Telegram 1-on-1 private paid calls as soon as possible. This was already in development, but with the upcoming changes to Skype, we are prioritizing its release.

📢 Get early access and updates by joining our official Telegram channel: SkyPrivate Telegram

4. Exploring Browser-Based Live Streaming

While our focus remains on premium 1-on-1 private calls, we are also exploring the possibility of live-streaming directly in the browser, similar to other cam sites. However, we believe that deep, personal connections are best experienced through intimate, private interactions. Still, we are open to hearing your feedback on this potential feature.


Turning Change into Opportunity

While some may see the end of Skype as a disruption, we see it as an opportunity—a chance to innovate, evolve, and provide even better solutions for our users. Our commitment remains the same:

🔹 To offer seamless, secure, and premium personal-connection experiences.
🔹 To adapt quickly and bring you the best alternatives for private communication.
🔹 To listen to your feedback and make SkyPrivate even better.

As always, we welcome your thoughts, questions, and suggestions. Let us know how we can improve your experience!

This message has been approved by the CEO and executive team.

💙 SkyPrivate – Redefining Personal Connections

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8 Simple Ways To Earn More on SkyPrivate

8 Simple Ways To Earn More on SkyPrivate

Did you know there are (at least) 8 different ways you can start earning more on SkyPrivate? WITHOUT burning yourself out?

Few models know about them all. And even fewer use them to their FULL potential.

So, in this post, I’m going to share with you 8 features available to you on SkyPrivate that you can use to make more money starting… TODAY.

Let’s dive in.

1. Use Interactive Toys

That’s right, I’m talking about tip-activated toys. That you can easily turn into your own money-making tools.

Here’s how:

  • Connect your interactive sex toy to your SkyPrivate account. Here’s How ⏩
  • Encourage members to activate it during your calls, for a (much) more interactive and personal  experience
  • Charge them for using it

That’s it!

2. Get Members to Send You Tips

Receiving tips is another great way to earn more with less work.

That is, you’re in a call with the Member who is either being charged by the minute or has prepaid ALREADY and you get to earn more, through tips, WITHOUT doing any extra work.

ON TOP of the money you’d get for your PPM or prepaid session. Cool, right?

And there’s more:

  • They can tip you during the call and/or within 30 minutes AFTER the Skype/Discord call
  • Tips, too, are covered by chargebacks

You’d only have to use your charm and flirting skills to get them to further reward you for the experience you’re offering them and spoil you with tips.


But how does a Member send you tips? And how do you receive these tips, more exactly? Here’s How ⏩

3. Create Your Own PREPAID Package Offers

Do you know what a Member is really after?

A good deal.

So, by bundling several of your services together Skype/ Discord sessions, custom video requests, sexting, etc. into custom prepaid packages, at a better price than if they were to buy each service separately, you:

  • Hook the Member with that good deal he can’t resist
  • Get your money upfront
  • Turn these Members into your regulars
  • Secure yourself ongoing bookings


How do you actually put together your custom prepaid packages? Here’s How ⏩


It’s a win-win. But where your gains are actually higher than theirs.

4. Enter the EXTRA 6% Campaign

You get 6% ON TOP of every payment that your referred Members spend with you.

Here’s how it works:

  • You go to Promo ⇒ Win Extra 6% Money and grab the referral link you have there
  • You then display it anywhere and everywhere your fans and followers can see it (your social media pages, your blog, your website if you have one, you name it)
  • Once one of your fans/followers creates a SkyPrivate Member account through your referral link, you get an EXTRA 6%; ON TOP of all the payments he’ll ever make with you on SkyPrivate.


… for lifetime.

Find out all about how you can activate this option in your Model account and how to withdraw the EXTRA 6% Balance you will have available HERE

5. Refer a New Model/Member

Did you know you can easily go from the 75% default payout percentage up to… 80%?

How? By getting someone to create a Memer or a Model account on SkyPrivate via your own referral link.


With every new such referred Member or Model you bring to the platform, you add 0.1% EXTRA to your payout.

Going from 75% all the way to… 80%.

Here’s how it works in 4  steps:

  1. You go to Promote ⇒ Referrals section in your Model account and copy your referral link
  2. Then, you send it to anyone interested in joining SkyPrivate as a Model or as a Member
  3. Once that person registers on SkyPrivate via your referral link AND becomes a qualified new Model/Member, you get a 0.1% EXTRA payout percentage
  4. Then another extra 0.1% for the next qualified new Member/Model you bring via your referral link and so on…


Find everything you need to know about how to activate and make the most of this feature HERE

6. Activate Your “Get More Calls” Option

There’s extra traffic on SkyPrivate extra opportunities, extra money — waiting for you to… unlock it.

You just need to activate an option available in your SkyPrivate Model account “Get More Calls” and drive all that extra traffic to your profile.

It’s THAT simple, really.

Here’s how you use this feature to earn more:

  • Go to Promote Get More Calls in your Model account.
  • Activate the option by checking on the On/Off box there

There! Now you’ll get access to a larger pool of members. Just be sure to be online to greet this new flux traffic coming to your Model page.

And to turn all these extra calls into… extra money.

7. Start Charging for Discord Shows, Too

Why should you limit yourself to taking paid calls on Skype only when you can charge for Discord calls, too? Since the pay-per-minute plugin works for Discord, as well…

And Discord is becoming the no.1 platform for one-on-one intimate cam shows for a good reason.

How do you actually connect your SkyPrivate Model account to your Discord account? Here’s How ⏩

After taking all the steps mentioned there you’ll be all set and ready to earn money from calls on Discord, too!

8. Earn Yourself a “Promoted Model” Spot

The higher you are on the (first) Profiles page, the more eyeballs you get on your profile pic.

And the more traffic you drive to your Model profile page.

Now think about the TOP of the page! That’s where all the eyes go. Where you get the best exposure.

So, just secure yourself one of the “Promoted Model” spots on top of the Profiles page and get all the spotlights on your profile page!

How? It’s simple:

  • Go to Promo ⇒ Promoted Slots (Bids) section in your Model account
  • Enter the bid amount you’re willing to place on one of the few Promoted Model spots available
  • … for a specific day of the week or for multiple days
  • Activate your bidding


Read more about the uber simple step-by-step bidding process HERE

And there you have it! 8 different ways you can start earning (even) more as a SkyPrivate model.

They’re all features available right there, in your Model account. You just need to activate them and get the most out of them. Don’t sleep on it…                                

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GOOD NEWS: Now You Can Use PayPal to Buy Credits on SkyPrivate (US Only)

Here’s some (really) great news: now you can use your PayPal balance to buy credits on SkyPrivate.

“But wait a minute… Paypal doesn’t allow adult websites to use their service, does it?”

You’re 100% right.

That’s why the flow won’t be the usual one — PayPal SkyPrivate — to top up your SkyPrivate Member account. But PayPal → Bitcoin/ETH → SkyPrivate instead.

And the whole process won’t take you more than 5 minutes. From the moment you click “Add funds”, in your SkyPrivate Member dashboard, to the “Review and Send” pop-up window in your PayPal account.

Just click on the short tutorial video above ☝️ or follow it  HERE.

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NEW Rating Policy: Updates You Need to Know About

NEW Rating Policy

We’ve made some key improvements to our Rating Policy recently that we’d like you to know about.

Here’s what’s new:

1. You Can Ask to Have an Unfair Rating Removed With Evidence

Has a member rated you unfairly and left a bad review for you after the show?

Dispute an unfair rating by sending a rating removal request along with the supporting evidence you have that proves that:

  • The member harassed/blackmailed you in exchange for a better rating (e.g. the member asked you to put on an extra show for him under these circumstances)
  • The member insisted that you offer a type of show that you did not agree upon before the call and/or you DO NOT offer in general (i.e. it’s not mentioned on your public profile)

Make sure your request fits one of these 2 cases, you send it within 48 hours, and that you back it up with solid evidence (e.g. screenshots of the Skype conversation).

2. You Can Reply to a Rating Publicly, Right on Your Model Profile

And validate/invalidate it.

Your word matters more than you think, that’s why now you can respond to the reviews and ratings you receive right there, on your public profile.

This way, you get to share your own perspective on the session, too. Your own experience with that member. And both views will be visible on your Model profile.

That sums up the key improvements that we’ve made, with your help, to our rating removal system.

Go ahead, take a look, and let us know your thoughts on the updated policy.

                                          Read the NEW Rating Policy

How to Cope With a Bad Review (so it doesn’t affect your relationship with other members)

How to Cope With Bad Review

“Waste of time.”

You’ve just seen this review on your profile page. And in a few minutes:

How do you cope with this bad review?

“But whenever I receive a complaint, an unreasonable customer, or a negative review, it sticks with me for the entire day and ruining my mood.”

What can you do to get over it fast? For you:

  • want to make the best first impression in your 1-on-1 with that new member
  • don’t want this to jeopardize your relationship with that loyal member you’re about to go live with

Here’s an “emergency kit” to grab when needed: 7 tips for dealing with a bad review like a pro’.

Tip #1: Focus on Your Next Call

In other words, be the best you can be and do the best you can do in every call.

Bring back your focus and keep focused on each member.

It’s what makes the difference between good and professional cam models.

“Focus on doing your best, and you will go so much further than worrying about every bad reviewer’s experience.”

But being friendly and caring after you’ve just read “Not for me. Not as I expected.” on your profile is so damn hard, right?

No one said it would be easy.

And here’s a basic, yet effective exercise you can try in a case like this:

Put yourself into the shoes of the next member calling you.

You’ve had the worst day at the office and you can’t wait to relax and unwind in a 1-on-1 on Skype with a gorgeous model.

You long for this session like you’d long for a nice warm bath to soothe your nerves.

And what do you get instead? A grumpy, bored or very suspicious-looking date being very… cold and impersonal.

Was it your fault that the previous member was an as*&hole? Nope.

Just try this little empathy exercise before every call and see how it works.

Tip #2: Treat It Like a Business

And remember that you are a public person:

“A Model is a public person. Any public person receives good or bad comments. If you have these hooks, where other people’s insults will touch you, you will feel hurt and it will affect you.” (Katia Tiuni)

Now, as a business owner and wannabe professional in this niche, you can’t afford to let your emotions dictate your state of mind in your Skype sessions.

How tp Cope With a Member's Bad Review

You can’t afford to show an “open-book” face to your members: you need to learn to separate your emotional self from your professional self.

Especially since camming means interactions with other people. People with emotions of their own.

“You need to work on your self-esteem and then other people’s opinion doesn’t matter.”

Tip #3: Focus on All The Great Reviews You’ve Got

Work that positivity muscle with some “good review weights”.

“Then again, I have tons of good feedback and rating already, how much damage can one complaint do?”

Go through all your 5-star reviews that other members wrote down for you and lift your spirits before the next call. Seed your happy thoughts and nourish your self-esteem.

And what’s more concrete than some great real reviews from real members?

Tip #4: Remember the Context

“How is it possible that a person who only stayed FOR LESS THAN 2 MINUTES can really rate what I do on my show?”

How to Cope with a Member's Bad Review
What was the context in which this review was written?

  • After a 1-minute call?
  • After a technical glitch?
  • After you’ve refused to accept his abusive behavior, to comply with an off-the-menu request?

“If a crazy bitch demands steak in an ice cream shop, the worker’s job is to say no and move along to customers that actually want to purchase ice cream.”

In such cases, the context itself should be enough to reassure you that “no, it’s not you.”

It’s not your performance or your skills (those clearly listed in the “menu” on your profile) that the member reviewed. So, why should you stress over it and allow it to put your mood off?

Not worth it. Spare your energy, it’s much too valuable.

Tip #5: Think of The Nice Members on SkyPrivate

So, you’ve got one bad review from one member. But what about the other SkyPrivate members?

Those who’ve taken the time to write some good reviews for you after your Skype sessions.

Those who’ve become your regulars. And those nice ones yet to meet…

“I should just take it easier…being friendly and enjoy what comes back….plenty of nice people too…being more focus on the positive vibes…”

Imagine if they, too, took their bad experiences with other models out on you.

Tip #6: Make It a Plan to Drown It Under “X” Positive Reviews

Did you know that our brains weigh a bad experience 3 times heavier than a good one?

This means that you’ll need 3 great reviews to counterbalance a negative one.

So, take it as a challenge: set a goal to get yourself 3 excellent reviews the following… days/weeks!

Turn this situation into a personal project and focus on what you can do instead.

Or, you can go overboard and don’t stop at 3. Instead, make it a plan to drown this negative review into a sea of great ones.

Tip! Members will believe the good reviews if there are a few bad ones mixed in. Because they tend to get a bit skeptical when a model has only 5-star reviews.

Tip #7: Contact the Member and Ask for a Direct Feedback

A “Waste of time” or “Not what I expected” kind of review doesn’t say much, right?

It’s like leaving a “Worst experience ever!” review on a fashion brand’s website with zero details. You don’t write if the product is poor quality, the delivery took too long, you’ve had a hard time returning a product, you’ve dealt with a rude customer support agent… Nothing.

See my point?

Instead of stressing out over… nothing, you might want to approach that customer and ask him, politely, what was wrong with the session you’ve just had.

This way:

  • you might discover that there have been some technical issues on your side that you weren’t even aware of
  • you get some hints about those particular aspects of your performance that you could improve

A self-confidence model is one that won’t avoid asking for direct feedback from her members.

“If the review is confusing or weird, contact the customer who left it, and show genuine interest in the problem they had.”

Tip! If there have been issues that were out of your control and you make him aware of that, the member can still edit his review within 24 hours.

The END!

Now you have not 1, not 2, but… 7 ways to cope with a nasty review so that you don’t allow it to affect your mood in the next call.

Pick the ones that suit you best and keep them at hand.

Speaking of which: what tip would you put on top of your “emergency list”? Let us know in the comments below!

Photos by Andres Ayrton from Pexels and Moose Photos from Pexels

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Jessica Larsen on Her Experience with Scammers (plus her best tips on how to recognize them)

JessicaLarsen on Her Experience with Scammers and The Best Tips on How to Recognize and Avoid Them

How do you tell a scammer approaching you on Skype from a good-paying SkyPrivate member approaching you on Skype?

Is it the avatar?

Is it the way he approaches you? The type of requests he makes or the “too tempting” offer he tries to seduce you with?

How do you recognize someone trying fraud tricks on you? What are the alarming signs to look out for?

The best answers to such questions come from those SkyPrivates models who’ve already had some experiences with scammers, right?

One of these “SkyPrivate models” is JessicaLarsen, who’s been so kind (and altruistic) as to talk to us about her own experience with scammers.

So, here’s an interview with her filled with lots of actionable tips, great advice for you, and personal thoughts on the subject.

SkyPrivate: Jessica, first of all, why SkyPrivate?

JesssicaLarsen: Because I am a 1-on-1 cam girl. This is my… thing, the one that I’m good at and where I get to be the closest to my true self.

And secondly, I just love those really intimate interactions that are possible only on Skype. I want to be able to see the members that I’m with full screen, almost life-sized, and not just in tiny little squares. I want to be able to hear them…

In short, I love this closeness, this level of intimacy, and, of course, why would I hide it: I like the payout here, on SkyPrivate.

Have you ever felt like you were lured into a scam since you’ve been on SkyPrivate?

There have been 3 such cases. In 2 of them I “smelled” fraud right away and contacted support, but in 1 one case I was so close to getting myself into trouble.

But, again, a question to support, in the live chat, saved my ass.

Could you describe what happened exactly to identify certain patterns of behavior?

Of course! Because I so do not agree with the idea that being scammed is part of some sort of initiation as a cam girl newbie.

And that if it hasn’t happened to you yet it will happen and there’s nothing you can do to prevent it. You just…. wait to get burned and learn your lesson. Bullshit!

Every model here has the right to know what red flags to watch out for.

And every SkyPrivate model who has had any experience with scammers should share it. So that the rest of the girls learn about the “latest” scamming methods in due time.

That being said, here are my 3 experiences with scamming attempts:

1. Someone from “support” approached me on Skype one day…

… telling me that they were running some sort of “quality analysis“ campaign. They wanted to make sure my profile description (including my list of services there) was accurate.

So, he started asking for a custom video where I’d do some of the things listed in my menu: striptease, pussy fingering, boob rubbing…

At first, I was too shocked, didn’t know what to think, how to react. Then, it struck me: he was a scammer, trying to fool me into doing a free show for him.

I got really pissed off and dropped a screenshot of our conversation in the support chat. They told me right away that they weren’t running such verifications.

2. The second time I almost took the bait…

It was this one guy who called me on Skype and, while we were setting the details for the show, he sent me the link to a video.
It featured a girl whose teasing and outfit he wanted me to get inspired by.

And this time I was this close to giving that link a click!

Luckily, the “.vbs” extension caught my eye (my boyfriend’s a back-end developer and I’ve learned a thing or two from him). And, again, I opened a live chat and asked a question in support. Just to be sure.

It’s one of the best decisions I’ve made, for it proved it was a VBS script that installs malware into your PC, corrupting all files there.

JessicaLarsen on Her Experience with Scammers and The Best Tips on How to Recognize and Avoid Them: .VBS Files

I still get shivers down my spine thinking just how close I was to giving free access to all my files to a scammer! I could have had my pictures, my videos, uploaded all over the internet.

I could have gotten blackmailed…

3. And there was this one time when someone from “Tech”…

… (with the username “Admin”) wrote to me on Skype that there was something wrong with the plugin. And that he’d send me an “updated” version to install.

This was quite strange because I had had 3 long calls that day and everything went super smoothly. Again, when in doubt, I contact support, just to double-check my… worries. And so far my intuition hasn’t failed me.

There was something about this guy… I can’t really say what exactly. Maybe the fact that it seemed unusual to be contacted by someone from tech and not by someone from the customer support team.

Maybe because there was something fishy in the way he approached me (no name, no nothing, just a mysterious “SkyPrivate technical team” signature). And the fact that he almost summoned me to install the new plugin.

Or maybe the fact that I hadn’t experienced any problems with the plugin myself.

Anyways, glad I was “overly” paranoid and asked that question to the support team, in the live chat. It proved to be what I suspected: a scam attempt.

Given this, do you agree with the “trust no one” strategy?

Yes, totally. And I don’t care how cynical this sounds or how time-consuming it might turn out to be.

If you’re the least trusting model on SkyPrivate you’re also the least likely to get scammed model on SkyPrivate, too.

Don’t you risk putting off every first-time member that gets in touch with you on Skype?

Well, even in real life, you still need to win your partner’s trust on your first date, right?

Joke aside, I think I’m being reasonable here: I simply don’t offer free shows, free content to anyone. Full stop.

And this weeds out a lot of the time-wasters and potential scammers. I’m not being extra cautious for no reason with any member who gets in touch with me on Skype.

I only get suspicious if he approaches me with… suspicious requests.

Has your personal experience with scammers had any impact on your relationships with your regular members?

Not at all. I don’t allow myself to generalize this type of fraudulent behavior.

For there are a lot of good-paying and trustworthy members on SkyPrivate (and some of them are my own regulars). And we, models, cannot allow ourselves to put them all in the same boat.

I refuse to put a stigma on all SkyPrivate members just because there’s a minority out there trying to take advantage of my hard work.

If you were to give 3 pieces of advice to the models on SkyPrivate on how to recognize a scammer, what would you advise them?

First of all, whenever someone from “support” contacts you on Skype and asks for a “quick show for verification” — to take off your bra, simulate masturbation or any other kind of explicit content — you should know that he’s a scammer.

No one from the SkyPrivate team will ever ask you that!

Secondly, if a member tries to convince you to accept a Paypal payment, cause you’d then get quicker access to your money, know that that’s a scam, too.

Not only that it’s forbidden to accept payments via PayPal here, on SkyPrivate, but just think about it for a sec: PayPal doesn’t accept payments for adult content so, sooner or later, they’ll close your account and refund the money to the sender.

And all that after you’ve already done your own part and put on the Skype show he wanted from you.

And thirdly, whenever you get a “vbs” link just don’t click on it. It’s a virus.

And what about the 3 best tips on how to avoid getting scammed? 

If it’s too good to be true, it most certainly is a scam. Like when a member contacts you on Skype saying he’s ready to give you $200 for a 20-minute show if you do this and that.

Never, ever give away personal information (email address, SkyPrivate username, and password, etc.) on Skype.

Always report these scam attempts to support!

Send them screenshots, describe the experience in a few words. Do what you expect other models to do: expose these methods, share your experience, help the SkyPrivate team help you.

Is there anything else you’d like to add, scam-related or not?

Be vigilant, ladies, but don’t let this “witch hunt” affect your relationships with your good-paying members!

What about you? Have you had scammers trying any other types of fraud tricks on you?

Let’s see some girls-supporting-girls here on SkyPrivate: share your experience(s) in the comments for other models to be aware of!

Image by Sammy-Williams from Pixabay

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The #1 Reason Why You Don’t Have Your Own Group of Regular Members Yet

The #1 Reason Why You Haven’t Managed to Build a Loyal Following of Regulars Yet

You keep hearing of all these other SkyPrivate models who have their solid groups of regular members.

And you do know how important having regulars is: 80% of a model’s money comes from 20% of her members.

From those truly loyal ones. Her own little fanbase…

So, how do they do it?

And why haven’t you managed to build your own loyal following of regulars yet?

But maybe you’re not asking yourself the right question. A better one would be:

“Have I shown them enough… respect?”

???

Let me detail:

1. When You Show Up, Regularly, You Build Trust

And it’s trust that opens the wallets on the long-run, not long sexy legs or beautiful, round breasts or a bubbly personality.

Just think about it:

Would you still follow your favorite trainer and subscribe to her/his fitness program if he/she would show up online only now and then? If she/he had no consideration for your own time and schedule whatsoever?

“Men want to be respected more than loved” (quoting Nikki Night in a YNOT Summit session)

Just being there, online, on SkyPrivate — maybe not daily, but regularly — is an almost too simple tactic. One that you could easily underestimate.

Yet, it’s the most powerful one.

If your members see you there, at the same hours, same days of the week, for days, weeks, months on end… they’ll subconsciously get to trust you and:

  • check out your profile in the first place
  • turn into your regulars because they trust you

They can stay assured that they’ll find you online next time, too, at pretty much the same hour.

For you can’t beat the power of familiarity.

And once they’ve made their choice (they chose you over all the other… 30K+ models on SkyPrivate) they’ll stick to it and repeat it.

Unless you don’t show up and lose their trust.

Think about it for a second:

You, too, have grown into a regular customer of certain brands over the years. And this happened both due to the quality of their services AND because you’ve come to trust them, right?

Because they’re reliable

It’s the same with your members.

2. Keep Your Word And They’ll Remember You

“It’s not really a big thing, but I always appreciate it when a model says the approximate timeframe in which she will BRB, and does that.” (source: ambercutie.com)

OK, he referred to models performing on freemium cam sites, but you get the point. Keep your word, whether that means to:

  • log in at the hour you agreed with your members, in the chat, that you’d be online
  • show up on time for your prepaid shows
  • perform the type of shows you promised them you’d perform

See? Nothing out of the ordinary.

But it’s small things like this, when you “forget” what you promise, that discourage a first-time customer from (ever) turning into a regular.

“Your fans can adore you, but they also have their own schedules.” (source: YNOT Summit)

3. Take Notes and You’ll Slowly Turn them into Regular Members

I mean, this is the minimum of respect you can show your members: not to mix up the personal details they share with you.

This Is The #1 Reason Why You Don’t Have Your Own Group of Regular Members Yet

For then it’d be almost like you were in an intimate moment with your own mister Handsome and he calls you… by the name of another girl. Not cool.

The freaking simple solution to this? Take notes!

Excel sheets, the Notes app on your phone, sticky notes, you name it. Write down anything that:

  • you could bring up in your next 1-on-1 with him to show him that you remember that… he has a dog named Rhino and his favorite sport is hockey, not baseball
  • you’ll want to keep at hand to save you from embarrassing situations where you risk messing up members’ personal information

Final Tip: Just Put Yourself In Their Shoes

This is the easiest way to really see just how important it is to show your members respect.

This Is The #1 Reason Why You Don’t Have Your Own Group of Regular Members Yet

To show them respect before you show them that you’re non-judgemental when it comes to their fetishes, that you love to please them, that you…

So, just think about it for a second:

  • you, too, don’t want to lose your money on something that’s not worth it, right?
  • you, too, don’t like to be cheated/frauded
  • you, too, work your ass off for your money
  • you, too, have to deal with sh*tty members

So do they. They, too, might have horrible bosses or terrible customers of their own at work.

“I thought about this a lot and while you usually come from the “other” side in terms of respect, meaning respect payed to the model by the members, the other direction is also true… And it might be easy to forget that there are also those who reflect more and are not interested to hurt anyone or be verbally abusive. Being professional as a model also means IMO to be able to differentiate between those two groups of members. 

So basically I like models who respect me.” (source: ambercutie.com)

A little empathy is enough to subconsciously stop you from doing something that you, in return, wouldn’t like them to do to you.

Such as not giving a damn whether they hope/expect that you’d be online.

In short, just be there, regularly, show your members that you respect them and you’ll get there. You’ll build your own group of regular members.

The END!

Your turn now:

What do you think of this too obvious “secret” of all those models with solid communities of regulars?

Do you think it would work if you incorporated it into your own strategy as a SkyPrivate model?

Do you find it too common? Ineffective?

Let’s start a debate in the comments below!

Photo by Andrea Piacquadio, Kelly Sikkema, and Raphael Renter.

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Why You’ll Want to Get Yourself on the “Promoted Models” List: 6 Main Reasons

Just imagine: the first thing that members see when they land on the Profiles page is your avatar!

You’re right there, at the very top of the page, all eyes on you…

No need to imagine it, actually: you can just use the new feature in your model account — Promoted positions — and get yourself at the top of the Profiles page.

Both on SkyPrivate and on our affiliates’ websites.

It’s super simple: just follow the 5 easy steps explained here to activate your bidding and you’re good to go.

Still a bit skeptical?

Then here are the 6 main reasons why you don’t want to be left out of the Promoted Models list:

1. You Get All the Eyeballs on Your Profile

And the more exposure you have, the more chances you get to turn visitors into your paying customers.

But I’m just stating the obvious here, right?

It’s pretty much like being at the top of Google’s first results page.

2. You Can Be a Promoted Model Even If You’re Just Starting Out on SkyPrivate

Yep, it’s that easy.

No need to meet 101 requirements, to be a registered SkyPrivate model for “X” months, to have “X” profile views per day, or “Y” Skype calls per hour.

You just bid for one of the promoted spots at the top of the Profiles page and… that’s it!

The higher your bid amount, the higher your chances to be one of the few Promoted Models.

It’s the one and only requirement you’ll need to ever worry about.

3. You Get to Pay Less than What You Bid

Let’s say you’re on THE list: you’re one of those Promoted Models on top of the Profiles page.

Did you bid… $40 and the next Model in line bid only $25? Then it’s only $25 that you pay (not your actual bid amount).

So, you pay what the next model in the hierarchy has bid.

In other words, you pay less than what you bid.

Note! If both you and the next model in line bid… $40, let’s say, you pay $40.

In short, you pay the amount that the next model in line bids, whether it’s smaller or the same as yours.

To sum up: you always stand high chances to pay less than what you bid.

Unlike with the bidding on other cam sites, where you have zero chance to pay anything less than your actual bid amount.

4. You Can Update Your Bid at Any Time and Secure Your Top Spot

Don’t worry if your bidding position gets worse: you can update your bid any time during the 24-hour bidding process.

So, there’s no risk, no lucky guessing, no… bidding “blindfolded”.

You can keep an eye on your bidding position and bump it up any time until the daily bidding ends.

The only thing you need to do to secure your spot among the Promoted Models at the top of the page is to monitor the changes on the leaderboard.

5. You Make Your Profile Stand Out from the Crowd

Your profile will be one of the very few ones wearing a “Promoted” red ribbon. One that will set it apart from the rest of the profiles and grab members’ attention.

So, do you want your profile to stand out or to… get lost in the huge crowd of sexy avatars on SkyPrivate?

6. You’ll Be One of the Promoted Models on SkyPrivate (Usually no More Than 10)

Just think about it: there are 30.000+ models on SkyPrivate and usually no more than 10 “Promoted Models” on the Profiles page.

Members would see your profile pictures before the other… 29.999+ models’ own profile pictures.

Do you see the type of exposure you’d be missing out on?

It’s The Easiest Way to Get Your Profile into the Spotlight And Keep It There

All you have to do is just bid for one of the top spots on the page to get your model profile at the top of the page.

And to be consistent and persevering with your bidding to secure your spot there.

That’s it.

It’s the surest and quickest way to make sure that members will see your profile picture before those of all the other… 29.999+ models on SkyPrivate.

It’s up to you now: you either push your profile right at the top and keep it there.

Or you just… leave it lingering where it’s now.

If you do not want to wait in line anymore, just follow the quick steps here and claim your top spot on the page!

Image by StockSnap from Pixabay

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How to Identify Time Wasters: 4 Useful Tips (from our top-earning models)

Do you know a time-waster when you see one?

Not always since you’re reading this blog post.😜

A blog post that started from a question coming from a SkyPrivate model:

“How can u tell who’s just basically wasting your time and wanting free chat and who’s actually serious and wants to go online chat?” (source: whalehunter.cash)

How do you draw the line between being friendly and being too friendly? To the point that you start to sabotage yourself?

How can you be sure you’re not too rigid with a paying member?

In short:

How do you identify time wasters from the very first minutes of conversation?

What clues give them away?

Here are just 4 of them:

1. They Ask Open-Ended Questions

  • “What kind of outfits do you have?”
  • “What kinks are you into?”
  • “What roleplay do you like best?”

And so on. You know where I’m heading to…

I’m talking about the type of questions that clearly point out that:

  • He hasn’t even bothered to read the description on your profile page
  • He‘s trying to trick you into talking about sexy stuff for as long as possible
  • He doesn’t know what he wants

“I can’t tell if these guys just need a lot of hand holding to make it happen, or if they’re just getting their rocks off by just talking to me and don’t plan to actually do the show.”  (source: ambercutie.com)“

On the other hand, a member who does know what he wants will ask you yes/no questions most of the time:

  • Do you masturbate in your shows?
  • Do you have toy X?
  • Can you do Y?

2. How to Identify Time Wasters: They Ask These Types of Questions…

  • “I like satin panties. What kind of panties do you own?”
  • “What do you do in a live show?”
  • “What’s the most annoying customer you’ve ever had?”
  • “What’s the weirdest request you’ve ever got?”
  • “What heels do you own?”

They ask open-ended questions and any type of questions that trick you into sharing an experience/memory with them.

Don’t fall for that!

“It’s a fine line to walk/ balance between being friendly, but not too friendly. These time-wasters can be friendly, but ultimately completely sabotage your business, if you entertain them too much.” (source: ambercutie.com)

3. They Drag You Into Endless Chit-Chatting

“I desperately want to use the phrase “shit or get off the pot” in here somewhere, but a model that orders someone to metaphorically shit might get taken literally!” (source: ambercutie.com)

How do you identify time wasters?

They’re those members who try to get you into dirty talking and never-ending chatting in the free chat.

You know them, those who don’t seem to get to the point even after 10/15 minutes.

The:

  • “Where u from btw?”
  • “Do you have a boyfriend?”
  • “Is he Russian/American/Colombian?”
  • “Do you have a strap on? Is it big? Is it white? Is it black? Would you use it to…?”

… type. You get the idea.

These are clear hints that you’re dealing with a big chatter (aka freeloader).

4. They Haven’t Read Even 10% of the Description on Your Profile

Does he ask you if you’d be his virtual girlfriend even though it says right there, on your profile page, that you do femdom shows?

Or does he ask you if you own a nurse suit even if you’ve already listed all the outfits you own in your description?

He could be a time-waster or just a “lazy” paying customer (who’s still taking up too much of your time).

OK, so we’ve gone through the 4 key clues that’ll help you identify time wasters. Now, how about some techniques you could use to keep their number to a minimum?

To keep them at a distance or to minimize the time you spend with them, at least.

Here’s what you can do…

A. Guide the Conversation and Keep It on Track

Sometimes you need to step in, cut the bullshit (aka “the rambling”) and make him get to the point.

Your conversation in the free chat should boil down to 2 key aspects:

  • Can you do the show he’s looking for: yes or no?
  • Is he willing to get to playtime after 5 minutes: yes or no?

This brings us to the next technique:

B. Set a 5-Minute Rule

Give them 5 minutes, no more, to ask their questions in the free chat.

If the member approaching you knows what he wants and his intention is, indeed, to go live with you, 5 minutes should be enough to answer his yes/no questions.

C. Set Boundaries in Your Description

State what you won’t do right on your profile page to weed out time wasters from paying customers.

Have you pointed out on your profile that you don’t do “daddy dom” roleplay and someone approaches you on Skype asking if you do precisely that?

That should be a warning sign for you that you might be dealing with a time waster.

D. Include as Much Info as Possible in Your Description

This way, you reduce the chances that they ask you what toys/outfits you have, what roleplays you do, what fetishes you’re into.

Leave them with as few “pretexts” as possible to ask for info that’s already there, on your profile page, for them to read.

Not your fault if they’re too lazy to read your description…

E. Set a Limited No. of Questions They Can Ask in the Free Chat

Limit the number of questions to 3 or 5: an efficient system to streamline things a bit.

Being this straightforward from the start will discourage them from beating around the bush in the free chat.

F. Use the “Lookup Member” Feature in Your Model Account

Did you know you could check a SkyPrivate member’s activity history right from your model account?

It’s the “Lookup Member” feature and it’s right there, on your dashboard. It allows it to:

  • check if the person approaching you on Skype is, indeed, a SkyPrivate member
  • get access to some info about him

In short, use it to look for antecedents and warning signs.

The END!

These are some of the best tips that our top-earning models use to identify time wasters and keep them at a distance.

What are some of your own techniques for spotting and discouraging freeloaders?

Share them with the other models right here, in the comments!

Photos: Unsplash and Pexels.

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Cam Girl Rates: What Should You Charge as a SkyPrivate Model?

Cam Girl Rates: What Should You Charge as a SkyPrivate Model?

The price you think you’re worth…

“I’m afraid of overcharging and I’m also afraid of selling things for way too cheap.“ (source: reddit.com)

I’m not being of much help to you now, am I?

If it makes any difference, this is a dilemma that all the SkyPrivate models have faced at some point:

  • How do you set your cam girl rates per minute?
  • How much should you charge for a private cam show?
  • Will you earn more if you charge the minimum rate?
  • Is it a rule that, as a newbie, you should charge the minimum rate? 
  • Is a rise of your cam girl prices alone a guarantee that you’ll earn more?

Let’s get you the answers.

1. “Do You Think It’s Better to Set a Low or High Price?”

A question found on wecamgirls.com that got me thinking.

Because:

  • lower rates = more calls, right?
  • but higher rates = less work

… and it’s also a signal to members that you value your skills, your time, yourself.

My experience has been: treat yourself like a luxury commodity and you will become one. “ (source: reddit.com)

A better answer here than the standard “charge the minimum rate” or “set the highest price per minute” is:

Go for adequate charging.

Let me explain.

2. Set the Minimum Rate and You’ll Attract The Cheap Members

And the rude ones, too.

My experience: the cheaper your price, the more rude the users are.” (source: wecamgirls.com)

Cam Girl Rates: What Should You Charge as a SkyPrivate Model?Here are just some of the signals you send out when charging the lowest cam girl prices:

  • You’re willing to do a lot for just a few bucks (even if it’s not included in your “menu”)
  • You’re desperate enough to work more for less (and members “smell” desperation)
  • You don’t value yourself (why would they?)

At the moment, I set the minimum rate on all sites because I want to make more $.”

Can you see the flaws in this “strategy”?

An efficient strategy would allow you to work smarter, not harder.

3. Price Yourself Higher and You Get Better Customers in the Long Run

Would you build a fanbase of loyal minute men or one of high-paying members?

It’s amazing the time wasters raising your prices eliminates. Finding the confidence to price yourself higher is also a super empowering feeling!” (source: reddit.com)

Just think about it:

If you set 1$/minute for a private cam show, you put your green light ON for… time-wasters. Those members who wouldn’t dare “bother” other SkyPrivate models that charge higher rates.

With you, instead, they do dare to get greedy (and rude).

To ask you to be all naked when the session starts so they wouldn’t need to pay more for polite conversation and striptease.

Even though your rate is already user-friendly.

Do you want that?

To have to keep up with such types of customers X hours per day? For, your rates are low, so you can’t afford to turn on your plugin only now and then.

Instead, a higher rate acts like:

  • a filter for cheap asses
  • a magnet for high-paying customers

Those who’re worth keeping in the long run.

The ones with higher standards (and better manners).

4. Cam Girl Rates: “Around How Much Is Fair/Reasonable?”

Start by looking at other SkyPrivate models’ profiles and try to figure out what’s “adequate”.

Tip! Pick 5 models with the same level of experience as yours, a similar menu of services, same category, same rank, etc. Add their prices, and divide the sum by 5. You’ll then get the average price that models from your league charge.

Cam Girl Rates: What Should You Charge as a SkyPrivate Model?

Still, it doesn’t mean that you should stick to “average”.

But what’s in a SkyPrivate cam girl’s price, more exactly?

  • Her level of experience
  • How good she is at entertaining, engaging with her members, and building long-term relationships with them
  • The time and money she’s invested in improving her skills, her shows (equipment, time invested in attending webinars, lingerie, make-up, room decor, English courses, etc.)


Words of wisdom!

  1. Experience without growth/self-improvement is pretty worthless and doesn’t justify higher prices.
  2. Lack of experience compensated by great people skills, advanced English level, and a good work ethic is not a reason in itself for setting the minimum rate.


Good to know!

  • Rushing in to raise your rates without first completing your profile on SkyPrivate is less effective
  • You can boost your earnings with dynamic pricing: use higher rates on special days (V Day, Christmas…)

5. BONUS! What Happened When Some SkyPrivate Models Raised Their Rates

We’ve noticed 2 things:

  • the majority of them earned 69% more
  • the majority of them decreased their calls with 66%

And this translates into:

More money with less hustle!

And this is your long-term goal, too, isn’t it?

Wrapping Up

Setting the most adequate cam girl rates on SkyPrivate means:

  • studying other models in your “league”
  • fighting against the “If I charge less I’ll earn more” mentality
  • aligning our rates to your key objective: work smarter not harder

Or “quality over quantity” if we’re referring to the type of members you want your rates to attract.

The END!

Now, I strongly encourage you to disagree with me. With all these tips and myth-busters on setting the right price as a SkyPrivate model presented here.

So, let’s hear your arguments: what are your thoughts on this topic?

Let’s chat right here, in the comments!

How to Succeed as a FinDomme: 5 Ways to Build Long-Term Relationships with Your Subs

How to Succeed as a FinDomme: 5 Ways to Build Long-Term Relationships with Your Subs

What do they really want?

If you have the answers (not the “answer”) to this question, you have a high chance of succeeding as a financial dominatrix.

But if your strategy right now is to regurgitate the same lines you’ve seen online, you won’t stand out from the crowd.

And there is a huge crowd of findommes these days, where competition is fierce…

Knowing what your finsubs want means investing time in:

  • getting to know them
  • discovering what triggers them
  • building and nourishing relationships based on mutual trust

Which is way more than the mere teasing and denial trick.

Now, here are the key ingredients of the recipe that successful FinDommes use to:

  • grow their relationships with their subs
  • build up their devotion

1. Take Your Time to Get to Know… Each One of Them

What do they really want?

OK, besides the obvious, which is releasing control and giving away their money.

Why has sub X or sub Y called you on Skype in the first place?

Here, any successful financial domme would tell you that:

Finsubs are different. They crave different things, and it’s different approaches that get them going when it comes to financial domination.

You can’t afford to guess it: you need to invest time in getting to know them. There’s no shortcut here.

“So I just take a pic of me doing the loser sign and call the guys “cash cunts.” Erm, no. That’s not being a financial dominatrix. That’s you being rude.” (source: wecamgirls.com )

Does your sub, the one who’s just called you on Skype:

  • want to be encouraged instead of bullied, seduced rather than mocked at?
  • crave humiliation and get off on having a sexy model be bitchy to him?
  • feel this one-time urge to be financially dominated: to pay you a tribute and then… off he goes to another findomme?

Or is he interested in getting to know you better and building a long-lasting bond with you?

“Findom isn’t a quick fix for cash. Instead, it’s a beautiful, well-thought-out art, complete mental manipulation, and control without the sub even realizing you’re doing it.” (source: dailymail.co.uk )

Financial domination is a fundamentally psychological fetish. There’s more that goes into it than just forcing someone to hand you his money.

So, how could you possibly become the best at it if:

  • you don’t know how their minds work around this fetish: what makes them tick?
  • you just take a tried-and-tested scenario, that you’ve found on another financial dominatrix’s Twitter account, and just force-fit it on all your subs?

Be smarter than that.

They’re different, as well as you’re different (or at least you should develop a unique style as a financial dominatrix):

  • Some of them want to pamper you: to offer you the life of a princess
  • Some of them feel humiliated if the woman they obsess about doesn’t demand them to pay their tributes in exchange for her attention

The first step is to become aware of that: your finsubs want to serve you in different ways.

2. Find Your Inner Findomme

Discover and polish your unique style as a Domme. And that goes way beyond looks and specific accessories.

Sure, hot curves and long sexy legs do help, but they complement and do not define your style as a findomme.

How to Succeed as a FinDomme: 5 Ways to Build Long-Term Relationships with Your Subs

After all, there will always be a financial dominatrix hotter than you.

So, what’s your inner findomme like? What’s her style?

  • Is she more of the sensual type? One who’d get what she wants without specifically demanding it?
  • Is she the “Cruella”, “spoiled brat” type, that some subs are looking forward to finding and being controlled by?

Go ahead and do your research. Then, engage in some self-analysis and find your own style of approaching this fetish.

Embrace it and perfect it.

Build your relationship with your subs on top of it: the games you’ll come up with, your tone of voice, the words that you’ll use, the feelings you’ll capture…

“If you simply create a Twitter account, put up a picture of you flipping off the camera, and post “Pay up, piggies!” you will just show potential clients how much you truly do not understand their fetish.” (source: ynotcam.com)

In short, if you’re planning to regurgitate the cliches you find online, you’ll prove to your subs that there’s nothing more than that you can offer them in regards to their fetish.

3. Learn to Master the Art of Timing

Now that you know each of your subs’ hot points and you’ve defined your style as a financial dominatrix, you’ll want to learn to seize that perfect timing.

To make the well-timed connection between spending and arousal.

When your subs are turned on and ready to spend, all you need is perfect timing to trigger the spending. And that release of endorphins they’re craving for.
How to Succeed as a FinDomme: 5 Ways to Build Long-Term Relationships with Your Subs

Now, pressing the right buttons, walking him through, building up all that excitement, seizing the right time to trigger the spending does call for:

  • time: you’ll need to invest plenty of it to fully understand your subs
  • empathy

This is what you’ll need to give, in exchange, if you’re aiming to build relationships with devoted subs and not simply to connect with one-timers.

4. Praise Good Behavior: Let Them Know When They’ve Pleased You

Just think about it: men that have this fetish are craving to please you, to spoil you.

That’s what keeps them wanting to come up and keep spoiling you.

“If he feels proud to have pleased you, he will want to please you again.” (source: wecamgirls.com)

So, go ahead and praise good behavior in your financial subs.

A tactic you’ll want to incorporate into your money mistress style if you’re aiming at long-lasting relationships, with particularly devoted subs.

In this case, by being sweet you strengthen your control over him and secure his devotion to you.

5. Build Trust With Your Financial Submissives

And trust, mutual trust, is the key ingredient of the recipe for success in this niche.

For maybe you can get away with regurgitating lines and tactics you’ve seen elsewhere and pretend you understand this fetish.

But not in the long run.

If you want your subs to keep handing you money, “drowning” you in tips on SkyPrivate, you need to win their trust first. Complete trust and total commitment is what your financial subs are craving for.

And how do you build trust?

You prove to them that you validate their kink and accept it. That there’s no need for them to feel shameful about it.

You give them your time in exchange for their devotion: custom content, time to cater to their urge to spoil you, time to get to know them better

You do your best to connect with them: financial domination done right is all about the connection between a man with this kink and the woman he worships

The more they trust you, the more intense their devotion to you will be and the stronger your relationship will become.

Pro Tip! Instead of waiting for that big sub… whale, you’ll want to focus on nurturing your relationships with your good-paying subs. Building their trust in you and nourishing their devotion will turn out more profitable, in the long run, than looking for that big ONE whale.

The END!

Just curious now: which of these 5 pieces of advice for “wannabe successful findommes” do you find most helpful for you?

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